Why Do Jerks Get All The Women

It’s Nick from BecomeaPlayboy and I got a very interesting lesson for you today. It will be one of the MOST crucial because now, we are facing our first challenge: determining what basket women will throw you into. Let’s get into it:

Can you remember the last time you saw a gorgeous young woman walking down the street but some ugly-mug has HIS arm around her?

Maybe in high-school, at college or at work this incident has happened to you more than on one occasion.

You had your eye on this girl you thought was off the scale in the looks department and you COULDN’T wait to ask her out or to get her number get her number but then … you realized she had a boyfriend happens to be a complete jerk!

He treates her like garbage and yes, she even tells YOU about her relationship problems with him.

Does that ring a bell?

I bet half of my lunch that you were wondering why she was telling you all about her problems and NEVER wanted more than just to be friends.

I know that all this time you were trying to figure out the big WHY’s and even said to yourself “Hmm, that is weird. I would treat her just like she DESERVES to be treated - like a princess. Why the hell does she not go out with me but with this jerk who treats her like sh*t instead?”

You really wanna know WHY you never got any?

Think about it. First of all, you ARE her girlfriend. That’s why she’s telling you about all her problems and shares stories about guys with you.

Secondly, you AREN’T seeing clearly whats really going on here: Why do you think she is going out with such a jerk in the first place? Why is she fucking him and not you?

Oh, might it be because … he is hot? Yep he is! She is feeling that emotion that tells her “wow, this guy is hot!” when she’s around him. In other words: she is ATTRACTED to him!

He makes her feel this magical word called ATTRACTION. You on the other hand were nothing more than being “nice” and “polite”.

You see, women aren’t attracted to nice guys because they are BORING. Jerks are the complete opposite of a clingy, whiney nice guy, they’re FUN and challenging!

While you would buy her dinner, invite her to the movies and act all “you look very nice tonight” he just goes like “C’mere baby. I don’t want you to wearing that top when I’m not around capiche? Ok good, gimme a kiss”.

He does what HE wants, demands, plays by his own rules and is pretty arrogant as well.

But how come women are attracted to bad boys so much more than they are to nice guys that would treat them so much better?

Find out soon in the next free newsletter of BecomeaPlayboy:

Tomorrow I will talk more about bad boys while you might play it nice and be all polite but he is bad, he is mean, he is abusive and he is an asshole. BUT … he is getting all the girls while the wusses are staring blank at the wall alone.

It’s time to fix this once and for all.

I DON’T want you to become a jerk or mean bastard when dealing with women, but it is better to be bad than good! Being nice doesn’t get you anywhere, and if you want to solve this problem immediately then I strongly suggest you download the “BecomeaPlayboy” eBook here right now:

http://www.BecomeaPlayboy.com/book

You’ll discover all the time-tested tips, tricks and techniques about ATTRACTING and dating women more easily and quickly than you’ve ever thought possible.

*** SUCCESS STORY ***

Nick, Hey bro I’ve been reading your newsletters and I bought your book as well and I do have to say that it really does work. I do have a question for ya, but first you said share a success story with you so here it goes: I recently went to my friend’s bands show and met this girl that works with my friend who is in the band and instead of just dancing with her I was dancing with her friend and then I’d almost play hard to get and she loved it. We ended up dancing even after my friend’s band played at the bar she works at and I didn’t ask for her number because I wanted to keep her guessing. I mean I knew where she worked and she works with my friend who is in the band. Anyway, I stopped in after coming back from snowboarding like 4 days later and got her # too. We hung out a few times and fooled around a little, but I think I kinda fucked things up a little by being a little too clingy and shit, but it’s all good because I found out a lot about her that night and I didn’t exactly like that side of her ya know? Anyway, she basically dissed me over the weekend when we went to see my friend’s band play again and was just being shady. We went to the show together and after the show she went out with her sister and wanted to grab her shit from my car. So I just walked away towards my friends in the band and was like, “Then go grab your shit then…” and I unlocked the door from inside the club. She didn’t even say goodbye and just left. I actually went out to this bar with my friends from the band and had a better time hanging out with them rather than when I was hanging out with her. I don’t really think I should call her or even hang out with her again, but I wouldn’t mind fooling around with her and probably could if I played my cards right. But then again there is this other AMAZINGLY HOT girl I actually met last week for the first time that is going to do a promotion with my band on the 16th next month and we got along really good! I’ve talked to her for a while on the phone a few times and I’ve probably been in contact with her for about 2 weeks now, but we just met up last week and we talked for a good solid 2 hours. I mean the conversation just flowed ya know? I mean she’s really fuckin’ hot, really fuckin’ cool, and seemed like she was interested. Any suggestions on what I should do? Thanks again bro you kick ass!! Steve Long Island, NY

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

Hey!

You are doing just fine. It’s good to see that you know when you made a mistake and act on it.

You were being a bit too clingy and act like a wuss with the first woman there…but then you didn’t care too much and just NEXTed her for someone even hotter.

You’ll see, the first one will come back because they always want what they can’t have or got away. And she’ll get jealous when she knows you are hanging out with somebody else.

Ahh women… so predictable.

But just keep doing what you are doing now and she will be yours next time you see her.

Just make sure you don’t fall back on your old nicey-nice habits and play it like JERKS play it:

Don’t care too much and make sure she chases YOU. You can even be a bit more aggressive … and on the next date move in for the kiss, she will has been waiting for you to kiss her for 2 weeks now!

So go for it…NOW! It’s a sure thing buddy!

*** ANOTHER ONE GETS IT ***

Hi Nick You have a good strategy by understanding the women’s psychology. I have a failure story.

I knew this girl from the work and had fallen in luv with her. I did everytyhing to deserve your he-bitch slap. The last thing I did was giving her a love song that I composed for her with my guitar. That was the end of the story … She told me that it was a very nice gesture, (nobody did such a thing for her before etc.) but she had a boyfriend for years.

After I read some of your stuff I can see how wrong I was. Now I stopped acting like desperate for girls. There’s a girl now compliments me like ‘You are very talented. You can draw, you can play the music etc….” Once I drew my picture by looking at the mirror which was mixed with my other drawings that I sent her with an e-mail. Now she e-mails me back, complimenting me. Asking that ‘I want you to draw my picture too, I will send a photo.’ I haven’t written her back yet. I’m not in a rush lol…

1- What does it mean when a woman compliments you?

2- What should I do now?

Thank you Nick

All the best, Frank, CANADA

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

You do realize that her ‘I have a boyfriend’ line was just an excuse to get rid of you right?

It was YOUR fault for behaving like such a wussbag. This is PRECISELY the type of girl that will now get attracted to the next bad boy that crosses her way.

It’s good to see you getting the drift now. Keep studying!

To your questions:

Oh for cying out loud, what do YOU think it means? She digs you, she thinks your sexy, she is attracted to you!

Look, women are so crap at sending guys the signal that they like them. They turn into what they don’t like us men do… meaning being NICE!

Don’t you see it? When they get REALLY attracted to you…they can’t hide it and start doing really silly things, and one of them IS acting like a wussy-girl.

I bet she even giggles and gets those puppy-dog eyes when you crack a half-decent joke. But it’s all good, she likes you man!

You did good, so tell her that she should come hang out with you, and you might teach her a cool rock-song on your guitar if she buys you an ice-cream.

It’s GOOD to be BAD, remember that! ;-)

*** QUESTION ***

Hey Nick, I recently bought your book and I think it is the greatest. I can’t wait for the oppurtunity to use all of your techniques. My question is “what if I’m ready to bring her to my place to get “closer” but I live in the basement of my parents house until I get through college. Do I stay the course? Will Lancaster, ohio

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

Yep, nothing changes.

The best thing to do is to rent a DVD and let her bring the potato chips.

As long as you got a lock on your door or hang a DO NOT DISTURB thingy out…there shouldn’t be any interruptions.

*** SUCCESS STORY ***

Hey man, how’s it goin’? Well, I hope=) Anyways, I fully agree with your methods of opening women. Saying “hi” one of the best lines ever! Your method seems to be pretty solid! However, I have to say, that I’m actually pretty good with women to start with, but I feel like I’m lacking in the “full close” area. I get attraction (females flirting with me all the time, “eye screwing”, etc.) all the time. I know how to start a conversation, and make them laugh. But I’m sometimes afraid to walk up to a woman. Sometiomes it scares the fuck outta me. I don’t know why, maybe it’s all the bad profgramming my mother did to me, maybe it’s all those crazy sexual harrarssment suits goin’ around, or maybe I’m afraid I might ACTUALLY succeed and get what I want…I don’t know. I guess what my question is, how do I take away that uncertainty and fear? It seems so taboo for me to reach over and take her hand for instance or approach cold. I’m used to being chased and I’m not used to chas-ING. And when the chick I want doesn’t flirt, it drives me crazy. (Yes I am an ego maniac)=) I need to know how to get over myself and get in there. I can’t ALWAYS wait for HER to do it! (wouldn’t it be nice though?) Anyways, I hope you can understand and help me with this dilema. I’ve been reading your posts and u seem to be the real deal. I’ve done a lot of your stuff, and it works.

thanx

Eagle Washington, DC

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

Dude, EVERYBODY doesn’t like to walk-up cold to a woman he doesn’t know yet. That’s part of the game.

Approaching women isn’t difficult if you look at the technical side of it, but your inner feelings will gt in your way. Thus the HARDEST part is to jump over your shadow and GO FOR IT.

If you can’t give yourself this NUDGE and get your confidence up…then you will have to learn it.

Approaching women really isn’t such a biggie if you have enough experience, but for most beginners it can be very frustrating and nerve-wrecking.

But it doesn’t have to be if you follow my advice and learn from my experience as much as you can. If you want to get a FULL education on approaching women, what to say, boosting your confidence and SHATTER those inner barriers that are holding you back from walking up to a woman, you should definately go here:

http://www.BecomeaPlayboy.com/advancedseries

I will show you how to take away all your fears and hesitation you may still have that PREVENT you from meeting women on a daily basis.

Make sure you check it out!

*** QUESTION ***

Dear Nick, My name is Bradley and I’m a 21 year old student in England. I am a big guy, but I wouldn’t call myself ugly. I always read your emails when they are sent to me, but, when I’m out, it seems that I loose my bottle and don’t go through with it. My mother has said to me that when she has been out shopping with me, she has seen me successfully flirting with the female shop assisstants, but doesn’t understand why I’m always so obsessed over this ‘girl thing.’ My problem is, is that I don’t know if my problem is an inside or an outside thing. I don’t know if my underconfidence is to do with my size, and I don’t know if my size is the problem when I speak to girl. I’m not terribly overweight, but I can’t help thinking if a girl that I may walk up to and start talking to would be thinking about my weight. Is there any advice that you can give me, because this obsession is starting to rule my life!

Thank You

Bradley England

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

Hey Bradley

Look, I used to be just like you. I’m not particularly ugly but I was skinny as hell, and it BUGGED the living shit out of me because I was always a bit self-conscious about it.

I HATE it when something bothers me…and therefore I always do something about it.

…one of the reasons I can never keep my mouth shut lol, but that’s another story.

But I if I don’t like something then I DO something about it…I never sit on my ass feeling sorry for myself.

So I hit the gym, gained 25 pounds of muscle so my skinny-ness wouldn’t bother me anymore.

What YOU are lacking is determination and direction. But let me tell you that your problem isn’t because you don’t know how to meet a woman or create attraction (that’s what my BecomeaPlayboy will teach you).

You just need to lose weight. It’s all a head thing. If something makes you self-conscious…get RID of it. PERIOD!

So…GET YOUR ASS TO THE GYM !!!

You will be oozing with so much more confidence once you’ve lost 30 pounds…and guess what. You can do that in less than 6-8 weeks!

Oh, and all your friends will go like ‘why are you doing this…you are fine the way you are’.

Don’t let it stop you, because people will ALWAYS try to keep OTHERS back at their level because they aren’t improving.

It’s all jealousy…but once you reached your goal, you will have all the respect in the world. So hit that treadmill, keep sweating and report back with your kickass Success Stories.

We’ll all be waiting!

*** QUESTION ***

Hey Nick I do currently have a girlfriend (her name is Claire) and we have known each other for about a year. We started off as friend’s and then we took it a stage further and started dating. The problem I have with Claire is this: We never do as much as we used to, it’s always me that discusses plans first. The issue here is once I’ve told her my plans she usually gives me an answers a week or so later or if she has commitment’s she turns me down. What do you think? P.S the real question is want answered is: I’ve been told by several people that women love a guy’s company, to be treated as individuals, to be courted, a guy with confidence. I’ve always believed that you can’t buy love, you don’t need to shower a girl with gifts (a few ocassionally are allowed), women tend to fall for guys that know their own personality and what they want. What i’m trying to say is if you can hold his own in front of a women and not stand for her mood swings, you’ll create chemistry which will make her want to know you more. Am I correct? Speak to you again

Russell

Saint Francis, Wisconsin

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

Yes, women LOVE guys who knows what he wants and goes for it. To be exact, a girl can’t get enough of a man who teases her, busts her balls with cocky comments and creates that chemistry called “ATTRACTION” in her.

Women absolulety love this stuff because it makes them laugh and start thinking that you are hot!

No flowers, no gifts and no dinner-dates, these are only for AFTER you have been seeing a woman for about 3-4 weeks, otherwise you’re entering danger-zone and could end up as her “friend” instead of her “lover”…and we DON’T want that.

I will teach you how to get women begging you to ask her out on a date.

So WHAT should you do to keep your relationship interesting and “fresh”?

Everybody thinks that they need to come up with hundreds of new and fresh ideas to keep the relationship healthy and intact.

That’s really not the case actually.

You see, the problem most guys have is that they drift into WUSSBAG-zone after a couple months into a relationship.

You don’t have to come up with new ideas and cool things to do all the time.

What you DO need to do is to KEEP doing what has worked for you in the BEGINNING!

Do you know what I mean?

KEEP doing what has worked for you in the BEGINNING!

She was attracted to you in the very beginning when she first met you right?

That’s what made her go out with you, kiss you and even sleep with you.

Now you probably started to become a bit lazy and didn’t make her FEEL attracted to you anymore…and the fun is gone!

That’s why she feels so INDIFFERENT now.

You didn’t bust her balls anymore, you don’t make her laugh with that jerkish/arrogant and COCKY HUMOR anymore.

You don’t TEASE anymore.

You don’t play HARD to get anymore.

You don’t KEEP up the attraction.

And THAT’S why you aren’t doing as much as you guys used to.

So what you have to do right now is to turn up the heat and MAINTAIN the techniques I have described in my ebook.

Once you breathe it long enough, it’ll soon become a HABIT for you and you WON’T even need to flinch to keep yourself hot and attractive.

If you can’t remember how it’s done, just go here and start reading:

http://www.BecomeaPlayboy.com/book

You do want to keep your current and future relationships healthy and fresh don’t you? So get my ebook IMMEDIATELY and learn all the techniques, methods and information you need to meet, attract and date any woman you want.

*** QUESTION ***

Hello Nick

Man if what you say is true then I am the biggest loser in the world. You know I am a really nice guy. I always used to buy stuff for women and be polite who listened to all her problems she had with men and their boyfriends…but I was never the one who got to kiss the girls. It was always some random jerk who got her but treated her like total garbage. You are completely right when you said that nice guys never get to kiss or sleep with the girls they want. This really sucks! But now that I know how to do it right I can finally erase this “wussy disease” from myself completely.

I do have one question: Well you see I have a big problem. For example I am in a bar with some friends and there is a woman in there that I like. I want to get close to her but I dunno what to say. Can you PLEASE tell me how can I start such a conversation.I would be very pleased if you tell me what to do and say.

Thanks, you are the best!

Bob

Khalkis, Greece

>>> >>> MY COMMENTS:

It’s good that you now get it as well. Being a nice guy really sucks because I was there over 7 years ago like you were.

I did EVERYTHING for women.

I was never late. I apologized for everything. Told them how beautiful they looked and would spend hours talking to them just thinking when and how should I make my move and tell her how I feel about her?

Basically every huge mistake a man can do while approaching women. And man did I get REJECTED a lot.

But hard work has eventually paid off when finally not only do I know for myself how to get women ATTRACTED to me by the snap of my fingers, I am also passing down every peace of wisdom on to men who need them today.

So let’s quickly discuss about bar-situations.

You see a hot woman standing somewhere in a bar, club, coffee-shop or just somewhere, doesn’t really matter.

Now the hard part is not just knowing what to say, it’s the WALKING OVER part that is difficult for many guys.

Now if you don’t know what to say or you can only stumble on something that doesn’t really work like “Um hi, you are so beautiful…do you come here often? I know you from somewhere…isn’t your name Heather, can I buy you a drink?”…

You know, the lame approaches that NICE guys do all the time…then you will feel the awkward feeling of being either ignored, taken advantage off or just being rejected.

A good idea is always to “plant” yourself next to her instead of walking up to a woman right out of the blue.

Go stand NEXT to her but don’t face her.

Just walk up next to her and claim YOUR territory first.

Then, when you “happen” to just be there and casually drop a funny comment, it looks soooo natural and non-threatening it’s weird if she even rejects you. She’ll feel more COMFORTABLE with it instead.

Why?

Because you are NOT hitting on her, you just talk.

That’s the key, you have to make it look like you just happen to be there, say something and then spark the attraction.

So for instance if she is in a coffee-shop and drinks a huge cappuccino, just say…

“Long day? What is it? Aww c’mon I taste much better than that”

And TURN UP the attraction gradually from there.

Don’t hit on women, but drop slick comments that are sparked with a little arrogance, cheekyness and cocky humor.

If you are in a bar, all you literally have to do is lean over your shoulder a bit and say in a loud voice

“Hey GUYS!”

Wait for them to turn around and then just ask them their female OPINION about something.

Women LOVE to give their opinion about anything especially if it’s interesting.

So you could say:

“Hey guys I need your female opinion, I can only stay a minute though. What EXACTLY is the difference between a G-String and a Thong? I have like no clue and it’s my cousins birthday.”

See? Piece ‘a cake.

The amazing part about it is that we all have the NATURAL ability to communicate with women in a way that makes them feel ATTRACTION… but most of us guys never developed this natural skill.

We either didn’t have good role models, got “programmed” wrongly by our moms or other well- meaning people in our lives and so on.

But just because you haven’t yet learned how to use and develop these natural talents doesn’t mean that you can’t start NOW.

How do I know?

Because I used to have ZERO SKILL with women.

Just a few short years ago, I couldn’t even start a CONVERSATION with a woman I didn’t know… never mind getting dates and have success with unusually attractive women.

But NOW I can. And it’s all because I spent the time it took to find and learn the secrets of the “naturals”, or the guys who had already figured out the skills that it takes to attract women.

If you’re ready to shed your past nicey-nice wimpy self, and learn the secrets on how to attract women that most men will NEVER learn in their entire lives, then you’re invited to take advantage of this powerful dating course that I’ve put together for you.

In my “BecomeaPlayboy Advanced Dating Techniques” program, I take the time to explain everything for you from the fundamental ground-up.

Starting with the basics of evolution and animal behaviors, you’ll see how and why women act the way they do, watch details and critical mistakes most men make with women and learn WHAT TO DO about it.

Later, I go into dozens and dozens of my personal favorite techniques for approaching, meeting, and dating women… everything from exact words to use to introduce yourself, all the way to what to do to take things to a “physical” level smoothly and easily.

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When you’re ready to begin DATING more hot women that you’ve imagined possible this week, click on this link below and get your own “BecomeaPlayboy Advanced Series” right now:

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And if you’d like to get an introduction to the main concepts, then download a copy of my online eBook “BecomeaPlayboy”. It is jam-packed with powerful pick-up lines, APPROACHING techniques and a complete in-depth explanation of what to do and say to a woman to get her phone-number and arrange a date within 5 minutes.

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I’ll speak to you soon

Your buddy,

Nick

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