Tyler on Game Anomalies

So the sun came out in San Francisco the other day, and everyone
was smiley and happy.

It was at this point that I decided it would be a good idea
for me to “work on my tan.”

WHY I felt this would be wise, I don’t know. All of my life,
I’ve had what’s known as “type I” skin, which is the whitest
palest skin imaginable this side of albino.

In other words, I don’t tan.

I don’t even BURN… I just go straight to cancer. Do not pass
go, do not collect $200.

So yeah, I sort of fried my back up. The pain of the burn
wasn’t that bad, but now it’s at the stage where it’s kind
of flaking away, and it ITCHES like a MOTHER.

Damn.

However, my rigorous mental training has taught me to always
ask, “What’s GREAT about this?” when encountering a
challenge.

So what’s great about this?

I had some girl come by and scratch my back for me, and then
engaged in vigorous sexual activity, which, by my calculations,
burned 17 calories.

Awesome. Now I can eat an extra piece of cauliflower with
dinner and not get fat.

Aaaaanyways, today’s issue of the newsletter features TYLER
TIME… you know you love it.

In case you’ve been living in a cave and you’re wondering who
the heck this Tyler character is, lemme give you a little
background:

Tyler is the Co-Founder of Real Social Dynamics, who has been
the creative mastermind and main public speaker at dozens of
seminars worldwide.

A graduate of the prestigous Queens University in Canada, Tyler
is a recreational ice-hockey player, and avid reader.

The foundational principles, concepts, and lessons of Real
Social Dynamics all center around advanced material Tyler
created while traveling around the world and analyzing male
and female interactions.

After writing thousands of articles on dating, fashion, and
nightclubs, Tyler began teaching at Real Social Dynamics
Classroom Seminars, and then taking students out at night to
become their personal wingman and instructor in the world’s
hottest venues to meet beautiful women during the day and
night.

From demonstrating his ability to get Playboy Models and
Miss America Beauty Pageant Contestants in front of large
groups of students, to helping students get the women of
their dreams, Tyler developed more street-credibility for his
findings and analysis on attraction than anyone else in the
world.

From time to time, Tyler likes to send me these bizzare
stream-of-consciousness essays on various aspects of the game,
and today I’d like to share one of these with you.

So here we go… I present: TYLER ON GAME ANOMALIES.

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More no-sleep ramblings from Tyler… even more abstract now,
so probably incomprehensible.

THE ANOMALY EFFECT: The effect which is the result of taking
SPECIFIC STRATEGIES into the field, that are not genuinely
part of your personality, and implementing them WITHOUT
implementing the NATURAL elements that someone who NATURALLY
used them would have.

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A QUICK ANALOGY:

In Australia, when bunny rabbits were let loose, they
covered the entire country-side because there were no
NATURAL PREDATORS.

This is because a FOREIGN element was introduced, and
there were no NATURAL CHECKS to deal with it (that is,
there were no rabbit predators to eat the little
bunny rabbits and keep their population in check).

Using modern cropping techniques based in genetic
engineering, modern farmers can run the SAME crop 3 times
per year, instead of different crops each trimester as is
the natural way. As a result, BUGS INFILTRATE.

Since there is the SAME PLANT growing ALL YEAR, they can
multiply more effectively than if a different plant was
introduced every 4 months. So their ideal habitat is always
there, and they can just multiply and multiply.

THESE ARE ANOMALIES THAT ARE THE RESULT OF NON-NATURAL
INTRODUCTION OF VARIOUS ELEMENTS.

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HOW THIS RELATES TO SOCIAL INTERACTION:

When you intentionally learn a new technique, you might be
inclined to implement it in an EXAGGERATED fashion.

1) An example of this is COCKY HUMOR. It is designed to
attract girls, but does little to gain rapport in many cases.

THE RESULT: A pure cocky interaction will yield you a girl
that will do you RIGHT THERE, but won’t return your friggin’
phone calls a day later. Actually scratch that.. a MINUTE
later.

(the other night, using a PURE cocky style (because of a
time-constraint), my friend and I had girls walking out of
the club, and they were TOTALLY into the idea - arm-in-arm
with us all smiling and saying they wanted to, but then
FLAKED on the insta-date just cause we left for ONE MINUTE to
handle coat check)

I recall my meeting of a woman who was with her date… I used
pure cocky style, and she wanted to bang me in the BATHROOM
while her date was sitting in the other end of the club.

She was THAT HORNY, even though I did NOTHING but ballbusting
for 15 minutes.

Then, later on when we got in touch, she FLAKED (this may
also be because I made her take me skiing, but who knows).

This is a VERY COMMON result of a pure cocky interaction.

The SECOND you leave, she comes out of state, and BOOM, no
interest in pursuing the guy who she just made out with
within 5 minutes of meeting.

2) “Superstar” social proof and group theory: You learn to
become LARGER THAN LIFE. You learn to project MYSTERY and
INTRIGUE.

If you’re doing this properly, you have people flocking around
you, and everyone is wondering ‘WHO IS THIS GUY???’

As a result, the girl will become massively intrigued with
you.. But VERY OFTEN, you get cases where you try to get her
number, and she’ll do ABSOLUTELY BIZARRE STUFF.

An example was when my friend met this stripper, and he tries
to get her number. She declines, and starts CRYING…
LITERALLY CRYING… she doesn’t want him to leave.

“Don’t leave.. please don’t leave.. I’m sooo confused…”

He puts his hat on her head, and she starts saying that she
feels the room spinning.

She keeps hovering around him, crying, and giving all these
indicators of interest LEFT AND RIGHT. She is SO INTO HIM
it’s RIDICULOUS, but won’t let him get her number.

“I’m so confused… I’m so confused… I’ve never met anyone
like you…” (all this while she is hugging him and begging
him not to leave. It was VERY sexual, but she wouldn’t let
him get the number)

Years ago, I had an experience like this where I met this
hottie waitress, and she declines my invite to be my “new
girlfriend,” but yet she keeps coming back to the table AGAIN
and AGAIN.

She begs me to chat her after my dinner, and won’t leave
me alone.

Yet, she WILL NOT see me again. She is FREAKED OUT, but will
still KISS ME and do ANYTHING I WANT. Likely I could have
nailed her right at her work, but yet she is so freaked out
that she just can’t figure out what is going on.

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These are ANOMALIES of MODELING a particular element of a
successful style.

1) A natural cocky type guy would be likely to also have
rapport building skills and such, so he wouldn’t have the
problem of insta-flake once the chick comes out of state.

2) A genuine celebrity might also have certain rapport
building skills.

But when we EMULATE stuff like this, we don’t NATURALLY
include the RAPPORT BUILDING, and we LOSE THE CONNECTION.

The ANSWER then is to *backtrack* and BUILD RAPPORT with
girls, once you have successfully attracted them using these
tactics.

The ANSWER is to REWIND and get a GENUINE CONNECTION with the
woman, once you’ve attracted her using your techniques. Get a
GENUINE connection that you GENUINELY FEEL, and she’ll want
to see you again because you’re FRIENDS.

(unless she’s a party girl, who won’t date most guys anyway
since she just wants one-night stands, so just give her what
she wants… if you’re into that)

Otherwise, you suffer from BIZARRE ANOMALIES, where they WANT
TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU, but give you WEIRD resistance down the
line.

It’s a result of emulating PARTS, but not ALL of a particular
successful approach.

Anomalies.

Another bigtime ANOMALY is that when you’re doing NON STOP
pickup, every day, you get this weird LARGER THAN LIFE
confidence.

What happens, is that you go out so much, that you get this
unreal vibe.

When the RSD guys and I roll through a club, the SEAS PART.
We walk into rooms, and EVERYONE is looking at us… it is
straight-up WEIRD.

We just sit there DUMBFOUNDED, looking at each other wondering
WHAT IS GOING ON??

But say we don’t go out for a bit, and it goes away.

Another problem with this is that you have DIFFICULTY
establishing rapport when you are in this mode, because the
girl cannot CONNECT with this larger than life entity.

So the ANSWER (as far as I can tell at this point) is to FAKE
the natural flaws of a chode. Show vulnerabilities.

When you are getting RAPPORT, talk about your INSECURITIES.
Pick ones that are not humiliating, like stuff about how
you’re worried that you won’t reach your true potential, and
things like that.

If your game is TOO TIGHT, eject, and then COME BACK and say,
“Oh my god, I dunno about this, but I just have this
feeling… it’s like, I dunno… I never got a manual on how
to be human… but I just feel this… I dunno… I guess…
well, you know… it’s just that something tells me that
you’re someone that I can talk to… and I just think
that……………”

Stuff like that.

Again, this is ONLY if you’ve been on a mega-pickup-marathon,
and you are now so larger than life that you are
suffering/benefiting from the ANOMALY that you super-human
(which is the result of so much social interaction with women
and sex in general, that you get a supernatural type
confidence and project it… so much so that any non-celeb
type woman cannot connect with you).

- Tyler

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Yeah. This is what we call “high-quality problems.” Poor
baby, you’re so superhuman that they can’t connect with you.

Actually, this is something that most guys deal with once they
reach a certain level of competence at this stuff, which is
why I felt this little essay would be perfect for inclusion in
the newsletter.

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Here’s what a recent attendee of one of our London programs
had to say:

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“Hey,

You guys did an great job this weekend, you all have
different styles, and it was awesome learning something
from each of you.

The first night with Alex, Mike and Todd was pretty eye
opening. I learned that the social responses I was getting
were caused by me, and that I could control what happened.

The second night I wanted to work on physical escalation,
and Tim taught me some cool kino games to play with the
girls, and Roxanna showed me how to lead the girls around,
and control the interaction.

The third night was definitely the highlight, and where it
all started coming together. Winging with Tyler was
awesome, I learned to act more natural and unreactive, and
it had profound results. My sets were lasting longer, and
the girls ended up gaming me. This was a huge realisation
for me, and was basically the main thing I wanted to get
out of the program - to be able to socialise naturally with
whoever I choose.

Now I know how I can get from cold approach, to making out,
to going home with a girl in the same night.

Thanks again guys, it’s been an awesome weekend.

-Adam”

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And ok, let me say a couple words about our new seminar
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Not anywhere.

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This guy’s the real deal, player. To learn more about what the
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All right, I’m beat. I’m gonna go take a nap.

Talk to you soon.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS