It is time once again for The Autopsy of the Month.
Yes, this is where we examine a pickup from start to finish.
Sometimes, we’ll highlight a success so you can get an idea
of what a properly executed pick up looks like, sometimes
we take a “failure” and learn what we can to avoid the pitfalls
in the future.
Today, I’ve selected a special report from Todd, one of my
fellow Executive Coaches here at Real Social Dynamics.
For those of you who aren’t familiar with Todd, he’s one of
our Executive Coaches. Todd has one of the tightest skillsets
of anybody I know, and he’s a monster in field. He currently
operates in our New York branch, and runs bootcamps practically
every week in New York City and the surrounding area.
While Todd finished his final year as an undergraduate
university mechanical engineering student at Union College in
Albany, New York, he decided to enroll in Real Social Dynamics
Live Programs.
After participating in several programs, he took time off from
university to move into the Project Hollywood Mansion, and he
soon proved he had what it takes to be an Executive Coach.
As a player in an international amateur soccer league, a skilled
martial artist, and avid participant in chess and cross-country
events, Todd focuses his lifestyle on developing a strong,
balanced focus between maintaining a high level of health and
building strong relationships.
His style is SUPER laid-back, and quite different from my own.
That said, I’ve learned so much from this guy it’s ridiculous.
Recently, Todd ventured into a strip club on a mission. What
follows is the report of what went down. Enjoy.
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Okay.
I went to a strip club with my friend last night to work on
our stripper game because if you can pull from there, in
my opinion you can pull from anywhere as long as logistics
don’t screw you up.
I wore an extremely flashy pink cowboy hat as a prop to be
absolutely sure we got noticed. We planted ourselves at a
table in a high traffic area and waited for the games to begin.
Ideally, the strip club should have been dead which it
DEFINITELY was not. This posed a problem, but in the end, not
an insurmountable one.
For a few minutes as we talked amongst ourselves, it looked
as though we might not get approached, but then one of the
dancers came over and told me someone was going to steal my
hat, so it might as well be her.
She asked if she could wear it, so I went into immediate
qualification mode:
“You have to be very special to wear this hat”
“Maybe… if you pass my test”
“Ooh… I see, you just like me for my hat”
Unable to come up with adequate responses at this point, she
fell back on her social “ten” status with “would you like a
dance?”
I busted her customer frame, and got her sitting to take my
test. I ran the “girlfriend test” (which of course I would
NEVER explicitly call by that name this early in an
interaction), then threw a bunch of frames of her being
dangerous and just out to take advantage of me and my friend.
Weird thing was I didn’t have to even show massive disinterest
as one might expect. The hardest thing I did was when I
gestured to give her my hat for a 30 second trial period, and
then pulled it away since she was “getting all grabby” and
made her re-earn it.
Somehow the subject of childhood memories came up, so I went
into a bit involving anchoring combined with a display of
higher value which absolutely captivated her.
Cue the indicators of interest!
After a few more minutes, she had to go on stage, but on her
way to the stage, she turned and begged for the hat on stage.
I walked over melodramatically and handed it to her where all
the club could see with, “but you’d better give it back.”
Now she was locked in.
In her on stage interval, another stripper came by and asked
if we’d like a dance. We broke her customer frame as well,
and made her sit with us and try to convince us that she was
sweet and innocent deep down. It was fun and good social
proof.
The other girl came over to return the hat and we blatantly
ignored her while talking to the new one. She then asked for
the hat back so she could make more money… I told her she
really needed to get some clothing of HER OWN, but in the end
I relented because legitimately she went up to a super hot
girl with the hat on.
After the second girl had to go dance, the original one came
back and practically BEGGED me to tell her more about
anchoring. It was a lucky topic for me to have stumbled upon.
This is where it gets WEIRD.
She has one very negative childhood anchor, so when I told
her how to set and change anchors, she literally started
crying.
She had to change the subject like 5 different times
throughout the night because crying is bad for business.
She got super-effusive and would NOT shut up about how
amazing I was and how I was a godsend to her, and how she’s
been working on this problem and now I’m like an angel sent
to her with the solution etc.
Very freaky… like to the point where I felt like if I said
anything not 100% nice I could blow her out at any moment.
She was totally fragile.
I’ve gotten good, or even great reactions and legit indicators
of interest from strippers before, but nothing like this.
Still, the problem in these situations is trying to close. Most
strippers (I believe) have a very strict personal policy
about not seeing people who come into the club. There was no
way I could close her, so I had to wait for her to close me.
At one point she started to realize just how far into state
she was, and how sexually powerless I’d made her, so she
started testing me about how without the hat she wouldn’t
notice me cause I’m so average looking, and how nothing about
me stands out.
I did a backturn, but she still kept going, so eventually, I
turned around, looked her straight in the eyes like a
disappointed parent, and said “glad I could be average for
you.”
She literally burst into tears and ran away into the back
room.
So I was thinking to myself, “Dang, how the heck did THAT
blow her out?!”
I was discussing it with my friend who assured me that I
wasn’t, in fact, blown out.
About five minutes later, she came back over to our table and
apologized for like five minutes and told me repeatedly about
how I was SOO amazing and how she’d called her friend to tell
her that she’d met the most amazing person who she could just
talk to on a level like she’d never been able to with anyone
before etc.
She kept dropping hints about how I’d be a part of her life
forever, and how she wished we could talk so much more and
get to know each other.
I played this down for the most part, but at one point I did
say, “we should get together some other time”… which I think
ALMOST blew me out again.
At that point she said she had to “go make money” but that
she’d be back. Again though, my pal assured me that it was
still ON. Thanks dude. You may be semi-newbie, but you rock.
I KNEW she was literally IN LOVE with me, but I also knew I
could not close, so what was I to do. I was wracking my brain.
Fortunately I didn’t have to worry about it.
She came back, tried massively hard to qualify herself to me
for like half an hour, and then gave me her number.
I resisted the close, and then finally acquiesced like the
sixth time she hinted at it (by this time, the hints were
pretty blatant).
She started quizzing me about whether I had a girlfriend who
would be jealous if we hung out sometime, or asking me what
kinds of things I like to do, and telling me how much she
liked each and every one as well, and how much she’d love to
come see me play soccer etc…
So basically after getting the number, I listened to her
compliment me for like 20 minutes straight and then we said
our goodbyes.
On the way out, she gave me the extensive treatise on when
would be good times to call her and how I should keep calling
if I didn’t get through at first because she doesn’t turn her
phone on all the time etc.
My friend assured me it’s solid. Hey, he was right about everything
else.
I don’t know if I really want to follow through, though it
would be phenomenal practice. In any case, I think it was a
decent game even if it was a bit lucky.
POST SCRIPT: What do you know, she actually called me back.
I guess my friend was right.
Cheers,
TODD
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Awesome man. Very illuminating.
This report shows what can be accomplished when you have a
game plan, you stick to the script, and you keep a cool
head. There’s a lot of knowledge to be gleaned from this.
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Here’s what a former student had to say:
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“It is not often you meet someone who loves to teach and
genuinely wants to see you succeed like Todd. It was then
that my life had changed forever, combined with his dedication
and support, my game improved exponentially every week.
Witnessing him do approaches and get the success he had with
women, increased my confidence and installed hope.
He is very knowledge of different venues and environments and
always gave valuable feedback that made an impact in field.
In addition to having strong inner game, he was also able to
apply that knowledge to generate results in the field.
By watching him do approaches and by noticing his body
language I learned tremendously.”
- A. S. of Washington D.C., USA,
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In addition to the Bootcamp, we’re now offering a special
seminar, taught by Tyler himself.
It’s called the Superconference.
Tyler is, of course, the co-founder and Executive Producer
of Real Social Dynamics.
If you like what you’ve heard from Tyler before, you’ll
LOVE the Superconference. He breaks the game down into tiny,
little digestible pieces for you to snack on, for two whole
days. Mmmm… yummy!
This guy isn’t one of the most notorious players in the world
for nothing. His intensely analytical nature combined with his
propensity to succeed at whatever he does, no matter the cost,
has made him a deadly force when it comes to attracting and
seducing the world’s most beautiful women.
And for two days, he’ll explain how YOU can get the success he
enjoys.
The Superconference. Coming soon to a major metropolitan area
near you. Check it out and learn more by visiting here:
http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/n/transformation.asp
Anyways, I hope you enjoyed this issue as much as I did, and
it won’t be long until we talk again.
Until then, take care of yourself, and HAVE FUN.
Sincerely,
Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
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