Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
One of the more difficult challenges in teaching Speed Seduction® is getting guys out of the old mind sets of “dating” and also getting past the crap that so many imitators try to put into their heads.
As I said in an earlier email, you can mix poop and chocolate!
Anyway, I just got this email from a student who nails down why Speed Seduction® is THE system to be using, and he nails it far better than I ever could say. Read on and learn from him about what it is really all about and how he had a major awakening to what he could do with this material:
(Oh, by the way, this guy was posting on the Speed Seduction® Yahoo group, which is for customers only. You get 24 hour, 7 day a week, fully anonymous support from myself and thousands of other students around the world who are always available to hold your hand, answer your questions, share your frustrations and celebrate your breakthroughs. All for free when you get your Home Study Course right here:
http://www.seduction.com/products/rj187.asp
Here’s that email:
“Let me just say… Speed Seduction truly is the most complete, comprehensive system out there. What led me to this realization
- several things.
1) Frames. I never realized the true importance of framing your experience until I watched the framing videos Ross has. I always
thought up until then that what I thought was ABSOLUTELY TRUE for me - isn’t that sick? :-)
There was one point where he is describing on the frame videos what a girl means when she says “I’m just not attracted to you.” The FRAME she is putting around it is “This is how it is and it can’t change.”
Something about that simple observation really hit me - a light went on in my head. I realized that that is JUST a *FRAME* that SHE set, not the truth about what is happening! I rewound it and listened to that again and again. It’s not the truth, it’s just a frame she put around it. As Ross would say, “I never take what she first says as written in stone.” Now it finally makes sense. I also realized that everything is contained within SOME sort of frame, so why not take advantage and set your own!
So I began examining my own frames - what wasn’t serving me and what presently is. I also realized that trying to deliver patterns or any attitude in SS within an OLD frame (e.g. supplication, dating, PUA) does NOT work nearly as well as taking on a new, powerful frame, such as “let’s see how much fun we can have with her showing me what kind of a person she is right now”.
Have you ever delivered a pattern and felt nervous about doing it? Your frame there means you are HOPING it will work, that you won’t “get caught” and, on some level, you truly believe it’s not something that is “you.”
This is just a frame! You can have a different one!
2. As these new realizations come, it also sheds a new light on the other systems I’ve studied. I won’t mention them here since it’s against list rules, but more importantly, they certainly don’t warrant any of your attention because, quite frankly - they’re just a bunch of “slick amateurs”! Most of the other camps rely on ridiculous “plotlines”, gimmicks, and one-approach-solves-all garble that strikes me as so insincere and blase.
Ross has said from day one, the point of SS isn’t to just be flapping your lips - it’s to capture and lead her (and YOUR!) imagination. This is the complete opposite of what these PUA and “C&F” people are doing. They rely on gimmicks and high school antics to get laid. If that works for them and they want to limit the quality woman who has more to offer than physical beauty, fine! Not for me!
By the way, I don’t speak from ignorance or speculation, and I’m not putting other systems down - not really… well, okay, I am a little - bite me, lol! But I’ve gone to one of their gatherings and noted the philosophy with an open mind. I couldn’t help but notice that one of the instructors at the time was reading THE BASIC HOME STUDY COURSE while the other instructor was teaching! LOL!
What I’m saying here is… SS is the most complete system - it covers everything those other guys do, and to a much more refined and MATURE level. Indeed, SS is like the tree and foundation for all of the other variations that have spawned off of it. The other systems are much like buds on a tree in springtime. Sure, they might be interesting to look at, seem new and different and varied. They grow and change color over time with their flashiness and capture your attention for a while… but they eventually fall off and die… and only the tree remains.
-Nameless
RJ: Thanks, Nameless. Sure you can throw out “cocky funny” gimmicks, and if you hurl enough shit against the wall, some will stick, but is that how a guy really wants to move through the world of women and the world at large? I hope not. As for the Frame Control Videos, they are not for beginners, but if you already own a Home Study Course (http://www.seduction.com/products/rj187.asp) then for sure, I would go for it. You can find the Frame Control Videos at:
http://www.seduction.com/products/rj152.asp
Peace and piece,
RJ
Straightforward Inc
822 Eagle Point Road
Van Alstyne
TX 75495
United States
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