Ozzie and the Positive Game Vibrations

It’s that time again. Time for COACH OF THE MONTH.

This time around, it’s none other than the Spanish Conquistador
of Desire… OZZIE.

For those who don’t know, lemme give you a quick background on
Ozzie.

Ozzie was born and raised in Havana, Cuba. From a very young age,
he realized that he was meant for more than the poor third
world society of Cuba would allow him to achieve.

He studied English at the University of Havana, and through hard
work, was eventually awarded a government scholarship to study
in Europe. This provided him the opportunity to leave the
island, and he went on to learn business management in Austria.

Over the years, he traveled throughout Europe, eventually
settling in Spain, where he went on to play semi-professional
baseball and also form his own successful business teaching
English to the locals.

Still not content, Ozzie decided to learn as much as he could
about the male-female dynamic so he could have the fulfilling
relationships that had always eluded him. He traveled the world,
learning seduction secrets from the best of the best.

After taking a Real Social Dynamics bootcamp in London with
LB, he was on the radar of RSD management, who felt he had the
potential to become truly great. In fact, he was visited in
Barcelona by Tyler and Papa themselves so they could assess his
talent firsthand.

After determining he was, in fact, the real deal, Ozzie was
admitted to RSD’s grueling Executive Coach training program,
which he passed with flying colors.

Now, Ozzie can be found instructing at Real Social Dynamics live
programs throughout Europe. He is based in Barcelona.

Today he has prepared a short treatise on the power of words
to define your reality and control your state. As you know,
to be truly successful in social interactions, it’s necessary
to “get in a pumped state,” and the words you use have a
marked effect on this.

To that end, take it away Ozzie!

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As I sit and work on the words that I normally use to talk to
myself as part of my self help manual. I am totally surprised at
the bunch of crap words that use on a daily basis to talk to
myself. It looks like I take a dump on myself by means of
putting heaps of shit on my brain.

Finetuning your internal dialogue looks like trying to fix a
watch. It is a fine, lazer-driven labor to destroy all the tiny
bits of info that shortcircuit your system.i just sit and marvel
of how I used to work with such defective machinery. Somehow I
managed to survive all the way up to here but let me tell you it
was not fun at all.

Words do affect your mood.

My latest project has been to train myself to feel good after
major screw ups in the field. In other words, I have trained
myself to erase the notion of failure so that every situation is
a win-win.

Just last night, I was pulling a 3 set back home-this
was a moving street set btw that we extracted to nearby club-,
my target was into me big time, attraction through the roof,
hugging, hand holding, rubbing and all that.

I hesitated on the pull for a millisecond and it was gone after
jlaix had done all the dirty work for me for 2-3 hours by
holding the other 2 girls. Though it was a hard pull, it was
very possible since my home is 5 minutes away from anything
that´s worth looking at in Barcelona.

Again, I caught myself just in time since the avalanche of
negative words like stupid, chode, dumb, etc came to my mind to
overload it. I caught myself just in time and let it go.

All this crap words will act as a mold for your emotions and will
crystallize them and make you feel like a dumb chode. I said to
my partner “I just gonna let it go”. By the way I totally loved
the girl: sweet, sexy, fun, similar values, soft spoken, great
tits, etc.

I have repeatedly trained myself to do this. It is a game for me
now. I do it also with my phone numbers. I have a very bulgy
list of phone numbers that I cycle everyday.

I know there is going to be frustration because some numbers
will not answer, other girls are too busy to meet, etc. I know
it can be frustrating so I practice myself staying positive
through out the phone conversations and capitalize on those
dates that really come through.

It is so valuable to stay positive because you never know when
you are going to hit your gold approach that you will pull or
really hit it off. Words play an important role in that. What
kind of words do you use to describe your negative moods? What
alternative words could you use to minimize the blow?

Also throughout the pick up I find that the more I use positive
words like “fun”, “sweet” “energized”, “loving”, “phenomenal”,
etc. all the girls fall into my positive frame and try to
maintain the fun vibe at all times, which eventually leads
to sex.

They are trying to be consistant to my expectations about them
and they cant stop having fun just to fall in the frame of “fun”.
That buys me entirely hours of pick up where I sit in sets longer
and longer.

For the longest time I had been a negative person aka a realist,
but just since a while back I decided to become positive.

I had enough already. I would beat myself to death after minor
mistakes, would consider most people were out to hurt me, would
feel depressed even after successes, always on the look out for
those negative spots in every experience, a “realist” etc.

But one thing that surprise me was how I could survive all these
years and even score major successes in my life be it business
or pu despite of being a negative person.

Simple reason: I was a doer. I would take action even when every
ounce in my body was telling me to stop and is not worth it
somehow I knew that to get something done you needed to take
action and have a plan.

This is what happened. I succeeded this way. Yes, you can
succeed despite of yourself if you act and have a plan. Yet
this is not real success.

It all starts here. Problem is that society deems successful
those people who make it economically. It is all about the
money. Life isn’t all about the money as we know.

You see very self destructive celebrities all the time.
Singers, actors, politicians, athletes who are at the pinnacle
of their careers however they are still self destructive or
engage in some form or manner of self destruction or self
sabotage, take drugs, live on the edge, etc.. It makes me think.

Those people succeeded in spite of themselves. It doesn’t make
sense!

Yes, it makes sense. When it comes to their job, those
people would take action. The thing is they were successful only
in one area of their lives. Which means no success at all.

To be truly successful you have to be successful in all areas
of your life.

Then you are a successful person.

One of the areas is mental cleanliness. Money, though not bad
in itself, can exacerbate and magnify the worst traits in your
personality. If you are reclusive it will make you a hermit. If
you like drugs, it will make you a drug addict.

If you have a reckless sex life it will make you ten times
reckless. If you are prone to people´s validation it will make
you an attention whore: you will buy Ferraris, big houses, etc
just to get people´s validation.

Same with pick up, if you hate women, once you have game=power
you will be ten times hater. You will take any opportunity you
have “to get back” at them. If you don’t like people, you will
make sure you ridicule everybody with lines and tactics and
use insults on women just to put them down.

You will hate other guys with game, secretly be jealous of what
they have or the girls they score. You will try to make comments
on the web to covertly/openly destroy their credibility.

It means anybody can have success in this area of your life(pu)
but not be a successful person. Most people I know have success
with women but few are successful. very few are happy with what
they have and still “crave” what others have.

It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t set higher goals. Definitely
do. But don’t crave, specially other´s success. It is a loser
behaviour.

Craving takes your energy away. Being inspired to higher
personal goals will soothe you and calm you down.

I will take inspiration over craving any day.

-Ozzie

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Wise words from a true monster of the game.

You wanna talk about INSPIRATION, you don’t know the meaning
of the word until you’ve seen this guy in action. Fortunately
for you, Ozzie’s running Bootcamps every weekend in London and
Barcelona.

When you participate in a Bootcamp, inspiration is just the
beginning.

We’ve been doing this for a LONG time, and we know exactly what
to do to not only inspire you, but to PUSH you beyond what you
thought you were capable of, and then provide laser-like CRITICAL
FEEDBACK in a totally non-judgemental atmosphere.

It’s like shaving six months off your learning curve. No kidding.

When are you going to get this handled?

Why not now?

Seriously, you can do this RIGHT NOW, and start on a journey
that will change your life.

Learn more on our site:

http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/n/bootcamps.asp

Anyways, here’s what others are saying about the Oz man…

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“Hey Ozzie,

Thanx again for this amazing bootcamp in Barcelona!

When I signed up, I was a little worried that maybe I would not
get that much out of the bootcamp and that it would be the
typical seminar just going through a lot of stuff I knew
already. I had been in the community for six months and I had
taken a bootcamp before.

It’s not that my game was so great, but I was not a typical
newbie with approach anxiety anymore. But man, the entire
bootcamp was completely personalized to my needs, pushing my
strengths and working on my weaknesses!

You always can read up on routines and theory, but I know that
what I learned in the bootcamp I could not have learned through
reading: the ideas of being in the NOW, being high energy and
having fun are difficult to grasp just from a post.

And the practice I gained sarging with Ozzie pushed my game
ahead big time: I got the balls to escalate, got a ‘closer’
mentality and I know that these field experiences will help
me to calibrate my game.

Thanx Ozzie, I really had a great time!

Fede / Wannabe

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Thanks for playing. Talk to you soon.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS