Today’s issue highlights our “Coach of the Month,” who this
month happens to be none other than Tim, aka “Chariot.”
Tim’s been stepping up hard lately, and this explains why
he’s such a frequent contributor to the newsletter. He’s
in the field, and he’s having a blast.
If you haven’t heard of Tim before, let me give you a quick
background on him.
While attending the Charles Sturt University, Tim became a
well-respected DJ at several of the hottest venues throughout
Australia. On top of his social proof as a socialite at all
the top-tier parties and social gatherings in his social
scene, Tim was known as one of the most successful with women.
As the writer of several articles on dating and meeting women,
Tim was extremely fascinated by the topics taught at Real
Social Dynamics. Thus, Tim enrolled as a client and became the
wingman for the weekend of several Executive Coaches at a Real
Social Dynamics Classroom Seminar and In-Field Workshop in
Sydney.
During his program, Tim had the opportunity to wing with Tyler,
who was thoroughly impressed with Tim’s skill set with
dating women.
Several months later, Real Social Dynamics returned to
Australia and invited Tim to become a personal coach for the
weekend. After demonstrating his ability in the field and as
an outstanding Instructor, Tim flew to Los Angeles to enroll
in the Real Social Dynamics Executive Coach training program
at the Project Hollywood Mansion.
Now, Tim is found coaching clients on how to properly make
real live approaches to beautiful women and he can be found
as an Executive Coach at the Australian Real Social Dynamics
Live Programs.
Here’s what Tim submitted to me this time:
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Thank ye Jeffy.
Like all the greats - I notice even the slightest shifts in
my game… it’s all a process and shifts can take weeks or
months. But it’s good to be aware of them.
When I consistently started hooking girls’ attention and
attracting extremely early, I realised that ultimately I was
supremely comfortable in set.
Like when I’m rolling up to girls - there are some thought
processes that never really occur anymore, but they used to.
My mind used to be swirling with things to say, how I was
going to approach…
Like a movie in my head I would watch the approach go down
before it did… and it rarely happened as the movie preview
predicted.
So as I started gaining more and more field experience, I
started not being outcome dependent AT ALL… like ZERO.
I would roll in and ASSUME ALWAYS that it was on.
Doing things like:
- Yelling, “Hey!!!! Ok welcome back,” at the girls if they
weren’t focused
- Pulling them back physically if they are about to leave (on
a positive vibe)
- Looking at girls as if they are RETARDED if they aren’t
listening to me
- Any nonsense thrown at me is treated exactly how I would
treat a 5 year old
- Blatantly telling girls I love them and want them to have
my children and we have a special connection in a cocky way
that they play along with
- Cavemanning girls away from their friends smoothly enough
for the friends not to intefere.
- Telling them DUMB stories about my first kiss in elementary
school and making them listen because it’s entertaining me
- Totally messing with them and they know it
- Any negativity from the girl DISARMED as smooth as silk
with total non reactiveness
Like the best cocktail, it’s the right mix of CHARACTER
(style, conversational skill and uniqueness), PRESENCE
(tonality, body language) and POSITIVITY (fun) that gets the
best results.
Always be conscious of what you are PROJECTING… what do you
sub communicate as a person? What are the most high value
people projecting?
How to mix the best cocktail…
Here is an excersise I do with my students at RSD:
Think of the most RETARDED, SILLY thing to say to a girl (not
anything sexual or disgusting).
For example: “My dad has three green cats and one pink one”
Walk up to a girl and spit your retarded line as an opener
then just sit there - totally unreactive.
If she runs away - you DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT MIX.
If she looks super weirded out - you DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT
MIX.
However…
If she asks, “what? huh? say that again?” or laughs - you’re
good, congratulations - you project high value.
NOW this also teaches us that the game is not VOCAL based.
It’s what you are projecting that matters.
I used to want the BEST lines to say, the best stories, the
best routines. But I wasn’t focusing on what I was projecting.
That’s why this whole INDIRECT vs DIRECT opening thing is
bogus.
They both work, in different logistical contexts. For
example I’d rather stop a moving group on the street with an
opinion opener rather than, “HEY, my name’s Tim.”
Having said that, “Hey my name’s Tim” has worked for me
countless times because I’m projecting the right things… in
my tonality, my presence, my unreactiveness - I honestly do
not care.
Last weekend a student asked Tyler to teach him good body
language… he said, “Here’s good body language… NOT WEIRD.”
(of course this was expanded on)
So to ultimately be comfotable in set:
1. You should have no thoughts in your head as you roll up.
None. Like just think about an opener and that’s IT.
2. Be conscious of what you are projecting - do retarded line
excercise until you are consistently hooking girls right off
that opener.
3. Think about the right mix of Character, Presence and
Positivity that suits and attracts you.
4. You are NEVER REACTIVE. A girl says “I HATE YOU” - you say
“Have you ever eaten a lemon?”
Good luck - and always have fun playing.
I am.
chariot
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Thanks, man… some valuable insights there.
hen you take a RSD Bootcamp, you’ll spend three days with
top-calibre instructors like Chariot, who make it their TOP
PRIORITY to ensure you get the skills and knowledge that will
set you on the path to the kind of success that they now enjoy.
Don’t waste any more time screwing around; it’s your life
we’re talking about here. Sign up for your bootcamp today
and unleash the player within by following this link:
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Check this testimonial:
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“I feel completely rewired and inspired. I look forward to
keeping in touch with everyone and contributing. This is a
GREAT PROGRAM. It breathed new life into my game. Tim is
smoothly calibrated and very educational to watch.”
- B.B. from San Diego, CA, USA
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And don’t forget about our other products, such as the
Superconference.
This is nothing less than TWO FULL DAYS of classroom lecture
from Tyler himself… the notorious genius behind Real Social
Dynamics who started it all.
Tyler’s been developing this program for the past two years, and
it’s finally ready to see the light of day. Every shred of
his latest theories and intensely analytical observations in the
field will be disseminated and dissected right before your
eyes.
Essentially, this is like taking a seminar on psychology from
Freud, or a writing workshop taught by James Joyce. Pickup is his
area of expertise, and he’s not only at the top of his game, but
at the top of his field as well.
To learn more about the Superconference and see when it’s
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All right, that’s all for today. Take care, and we’ll see you
next time.
Sincerely,
Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
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