I don’t think it’s really “love,” do you?

QUESTION:

…I know in your black book you covered the early ‘I love you’,
but I need a bit more detail if you can spare the time. Well I’ve
been with a my girlfriend for about a month now, while I like her
she does seem to be a bit needy/clingy. For the moment I can put up
with this without much problem. However she has already said she
loves me a few times.

Now this freaks me out a little and confuses me, I find it hard to
believe that she is in love with me already, I know I’m certainly
not in love with her. When she says it, it makes me feel a bit
guilty because I know I cant say it back.

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CARLOS:

I just got this question the other day, and it’s killing me to tell
you why this is the biggest freakin’ mistake on the planet. I also
got a question about girls who kiss other guys when they’re out at
bars, and you’ll LOVE my answer to that one.

Go read the rest of the questions and my answers on the newsletter
page right now:

http://clicks.aweber.com/z/ct/?Gy0kJWiKLWdAFLQ5.t7nSg

- Carlos Xuma