Fractions and Other Math Oddities

Last night I went out to the bar with my friend to celebrate.
He just had his last anger management class, so I told him
I’d buy him a few rounds of vodka.

So I threw on the motorcycle jacket and rode the Schwiin
over there. We met at this hipster dive bar, and as I walked
in I could see it was pretty dead. My friend was there and
I had the dude bring the first round.

After congratulating him and so forth, we got to talking. This
dude broke up with his girlfriend a couple months ago, and
from the way he was talking it seemed to me like he was ready
to move on and GET SOME.

I decided it was time to do a little pro bono work. I start
getting him all pumped up and into state.

So soon enough, some decent talent starts filing in. I tell
him, “All right man, set for set…” meaning I approach, then
he does, then I do, and so on.

I decide to go first.

So I walk over to these three plain looking girls sitting at a
table. I don’t really drink anymore, so at this point I’m
feeling sort of loose and woozy.

“Hey,” I blurt, “Whaddya guys think about the NAFTA global
warming of globablization in the thermonuclear war in Europe?”

Blank stare.

I stack some stuff on top of this, trying to get anything to
stick. It’s not working. And up close, I can see they’re not
very desirable. My rhythm goes off… it is a CRASH AND BURN.

I chuckle and leave. My friend is not impressed.

I go, “All right man, your turn.”

He won’t go.

Screw it, I’ll go again. I turn to my left.

“Hey… HEY. Look, we’re having an argument here… I feel
that existensialist philosophy is akin to mental masturbation
and furthermore, that this nihilism fosters a dangerous
moral relativism in our society. He says no. What do you
think?”

This time was better, it hits, the chick starts responding. I
run it pretty well, expecting my friend to come in and help
with the other girl in the pair, but he doesn’t and the
second girl drags the other away to the dance floor.

“Come dance with me,” she says as she gets dragged away.

Warm up number two, DONE. Now I’m starting to feel it.

I tell my friend it’s his turn for sure now. He finally agrees,
and actually opens up a group. He gets bounced out of it
after one of the girls is just not having his arrogant
demeanor and wacky comments.

This is the time when a novice would get discouraged and give
up.

The pro knows that these warm up sets are NECESSARY. Granted,
sometimes you stick on the first approach of the night, but
more often than not, you’ve GOT TO DO YOUR WARM UPS.

The fundamentals are what’s important.

End of the story? Later on, my friend ended up hooking up
with a hot 30 year old chick who lived up the street from
the bar.

THE FUNDAMENTALS.

Anyway, let’s get down to business. The first question comes
from a former student who has an inquiry about a somewhat
advanced concept:

*** QUESTION ***

Jeffy… I have a question about what you called
“fractionation” during the bootcamp.

I have been finding attraction has been happening really fast
for me and I am moving into the comfort building phase well.

However either on a date or a long long pick up I am finding
the target losing a little interest. Do I need to throw in
the odd attract material?

It doesn’t feel congruent blurting out a random attraction
routine. Would a misinterpetation or cocky tease be more
appropriate?

An example of how you deal with this would be great.

Reagards
Nathan

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Well, first off, it’s encouraging that you actually recognize
that this is a problem. Diagnosing your own game can be
difficult, so good job there.

You want to monitor the level of attraction at all times,
even when in the rapport phase.

Because what’s going to happen once you make the transition is,
you’ll notice the energy dies down somewhat.

If you let it die down TOO much, she’ll lose interest entirely
and it’s quite possible that you’ll lose the girl.

So, what you want to do is occassionally SPRINKLE in little
bits of attraction material, i.e. the teases and so forth,
whenever you sense that the energy level is getting too low.

This is a what is meant by “fractionation,” and just like
anything in this game, it takes a little bit of practice until
you can calibrate it just right. And, of course, every
interaction is different, so that must be taken into account
as well.

But yes, that’s exactly what you want to do, pepper in
attraction. Don’t worry about it being random. That’s LOGICAL
thinking, remember? You don’t need a REASON to do or say
anything. This game is about emotions, not logic.

Anyway, have fun out there.

Next caller…

*** SUCCESS STORY ***

Funny thing I noticed about bootcamps and workshop seminars
is that my desired results came after the camps were over.

I love this… I wanted to do a club makeout because I thought
you had to be a superhero or 50 cent. I went in and didn’t
even try and didn’t get one, but at the Miami airport when
going home, this cute chick hung up with her boyfriend and I
opened a conversation with her, venue changed then blew it
after being very close (teased her as I was going in, what
the fu$(4ck!!).

Then went to the club couple of nights later and got first
one makeout, then another, then another.

Funny thing is… I haven’t gamed in a while, kind of been
through a lot in life (katrina/New Orleans finally sinking
in, ex-girlfriend murdered etc., heavy stuff you know) and
now when I have occasionally approached girls my technical
skills may not be as sharp, but more importantly I feel this
overall maturity about the situation, this inner knowingness.

I didn’t have this before. I think it comes from taking a
break from conscious gaming and living life as a man having
gone through RSD training and mature situations i.e. death,
aging, calm down hormones etc.

It is time to go back out there, but there are definite
benefits I have found from taking a break. Have you noticed
this even though you go out constantly?

marcus

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

This is a very astute observation. It’s very similar to
bodybuilding, in that you want to take breaks every now and then
to allow the growth to happen.

For example, I recently took a trip to Mexico. Leading up to
the trip, I had been working out like a madman for three
months, with cardio three times a day, seven days a week in
the final weeks.

Then I took two weeks off. My body was loving me for that.
And, due to the fact that my metabolism was so cranked up,
I didn’t gain any fat despite eating all kinds of proscribed
foods and binge drinking.

Heck, I think I actually got MORE LEAN during the break, if
you can believe that. And now, I’m ready to hit up my
training again with renewed vigor.

This process also takes place when you take a break from
“pickup” for a while, so I’d agree that it’s very valuable
to do so from time to time.

Great letter. Thanks.

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Cool, let’s move on to the next letter.

*** QUESTION ***

Jeffy,

Thanks for speaking with me the other day. You said if I should
have any questions to let you know. Well here is a quick one.

I just had a situation where I got this 9s phone number
(actually she gave it to me without me asking for it) and
invited her out to a networking function. Things went well but
no intimacy.

I called her twice the next week but she never called back.
Then I emailed her and she emailed me back saying she would
be in court all week (she is an attorney).

Well, I tried calling her and she never called me back. On my
third phone call I got her. She apologized for not getting back
with me saying again she was in court. I suggested that we have
coffee that weekend and she said she was busy that maybe next
week would be better. She said she would call me.

Jeffy how should I have handled this? Particularly the part
where she apologized for not getting back to me. I hate it when
girls do that.

Please let me know oh wise one.

-Gary

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

Well, Gary, this is a very common problem here.

First off, let me say that a certain amount of flakiness is to
be expected. You can try to minimize it the best you can, but in
the end, certain girls are just going to flake, often for reasons
that are beyond your control.

This girl is an attorney. She’s not trying to tool you, man.
It’s just highly likely that she is EXTREMELY BUSY.

You can’t hold that against her. In fact, I’d be pretty stoked
to have a 9 who’s also a high-powered attorney give me her phone
number!

HI FIVE!

With that in mind, however, I would continue to call the chick
until she either changes her number, or explicitly tells you to
stop.

Why do this? Because you’ve gotta understand, sometimes
the girl is just preoccupied.

Now, you’ve got to understand, I’m not suggesting you stalk this
chick to the point where she thinks you’re a weirdo with nothing
else on his plate but HER. Just check in on her every once in a
while.

Make sure you’re still hitting the field and getting with other
girls, in order to avoid that needy vibe that comes from having
a scarcity frame. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket.

In other words, don’t sweat this one girl too much. Just call
every once in a while, and let it happen naturally.

If you try too hard, it definitely WON’T, so heed my advice.

The point is, don’t be so quick to blow a chick off as a
“flake.”

Even if she does flake, it’s important that you never call her
on it in an angry way. If you must reference it, make it funny.
Otherwise, again, you risk sub communicating that you don’t have
any other options, and it’s HASTA LA VISTA BABY!

I’ve had cases where I tried to get the chick out for like
six MONTHS, and then one day she just called me up wanting to
hang out. Whatever she had been preoccupied with wasn’t a factor
anymore, and she became available.

Just chill man, ride the wave.

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All right, going to take a quick disco nap. It’s my roommate’s
birthday, and I think this may call for some more PRO BONO
WORK!

See you next time.

Sincerely,

Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS