Don’t fall into this useless habit…

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Hey, do you worry a lot?

Industry maven Dan Kennedy says in a recent article:

“We cannot allow the worry of distractions to become the bigger
distraction than the distractions.”

Brief side note: old mentor of mine’s statement: “Worriers (and
spellers) can be hired for minimum wage.”

A lot of people waste a lot of time and energy worrying about what
others think of them - which is actually the combo of ego amok and
low self-esteem. Or worrying about problems that might arise -
which is only useful in context of strategic planning and proactive
prevention.
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CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:

This is an important lesson to you when you’re out there trying to
talk to women and get this part of your life under your control.

Worrying is the most USELESS mental effort you can expend.

It accomplishes NOTHING. Usually worry immobilizes us so much that
we even fail to PREPARE when we know there is a chance of the thing
we’re worrying about coming true.

Remember what I say about worry:

90% of the things that you worry about NEVER happen. And 90% of the
things that happen to you never give you the chance to worry about
them.

And re-read Dan Kennedy’s statement once more:

“A lot of people waste a lot of time and energy worrying about what
others think of them - which is actually the combo of ego amok and
low self-esteem.”

Very very true. Amazingly we can be both egotistical AND insecure
at the exact same time.

If you’re in this mindset when you’re talking to a woman, you’re
not only ensuring that your conversation will not arouse her
interest, you’re also going to emotionally condition and cripple
yourself in future interactions, because you’ll be practicing the
fine art of MESSING with your own head.

The best state to be in with women is worry-free, relaxed, and
independent of her judgment and evaluation.

Remember: No woman can judge you! They’re NOT qualified for this job.

Only YOU are.

Get busy…

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Your friend,

Carlos Xuma

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