Today’s issue highlights our “Coach of the Month,” who this
month happens to be none other than Tim, aka “Chariot.”
If you haven’t heard of Tim before, let me give you a quick
background on him.
While attending the Charles Sturt University, Tim became a
well-respected DJ at several of the hottest venues throughout
Australia. On top of his social proof as a socialite at all
the top-tier parties and social gatherings in his social
scene, Tim was known as one of the most successful with women.
As the writer of several articles on dating and meeting women,
Tim was extremely fascinated by the topics taught at Real
Social Dynamics. Thus, Tim enrolled as a client and became the
wingman for the weekend of several Executive Coaches at a Real
Social Dynamics Classroom Seminar and In-Field Workshop in
Sydney.
During his program, Tim had the opportunity to wing with Tyler,
who was thoroughly impressed with Tim’s skill set with
approaching and dating women.
Several months later, Real Social Dynamics returned to
Australia and invited Tim to become a personal coach for the
weekend. After demonstrating his ability in the field and as
an outstanding Instructor, Tim flew to Los Angeles to enroll
in the Real Social Dynamics Executive Coach training program
at the Project Hollywood Mansion.
Now, Tim is found coaching clients on how to properly make
real live approaches to beautiful women and he can be found
as an Executive Coach at the Australian Real Social Dynamics
Live Programs.
And now, for your reading pleasure, allow me to present
Chariot’s personal dissertation on the elusive quality
known as SMOOTHNESS.
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(cue cd - Air, 10,000 Hz legend)
Ok. Time to get some thoughts out - important ponderings from
the Chariot field.
So you have some kick ass stories, routines, spin moves,
tricks, flymoves - some tools in the toolbox.
Are you getting results?
What differentiates a guy who’s naturally good with women
from a guy who’s a “routine spinner” is the magic glue that
holds a set together.
The glue that makes it all flow and blend together
congruently - smoooothness.
The glue (the bits in between) are different for every man.
Look at all the boys in RSD… we all have different
characters, styles, hobbies, etc. - but yet we can say the
same story and it will sound completely different.
I view my social, conversational mind as one of those “magic
eight balls.”
A magic eight ball is this toy of an oversized pool eight
ball… you shake it and your fortune floats to the surface.
So I have all this info and tools floating beneath the
surface (my sub conscious mind) - ready to be released.
When I go into set I literally have one thing on my mind -
“Hey.”
That’s it… like shaking my magic calibrating eight
ball, a conversation piece then floats to the surface and
seduction fun begins.
This is how reference points work. The more field experience
and reference points you have, the more efficient your eight
ball is.
To explain this a bit more…
I am always hyper aware of the energy levels, comfort and
all the little sub communications of the girls in my
interactions. I aware of even the slightest of shifts in
these; and I calibrate accordingly.
This is what SMOOTH is.
We all know the concept - Change a girl’s MOOD, not her MIND.
So glide up to her - smmoooth, strong frame - like nothing
she says or does makes a difference… you never miss a beat.
She tries to resist logically, yet something keeps her there,
intrigued… eventually she feels different, she feels happier,
you have done this to her. You have high value.
This is the addiction that is social interaction. True
seduction at play.
Ok, let’s apply this to YOU.
I teach this to my students. “Guy 1 vs. Guy 2 mentality.”
GUY 1:
So you’re out.
There she is. At the bar. The one you want.
We all have the image of the perfect girl - and this is her.
Your mind races.
She is hot. God she is hot.
You sit there - it builds up inside you. In literally 1
second you get that feeling in your stomach. That ache that
says you can’t do it.
But wait - there is more.
She is with a group of friends, some guys, some girls. You
feel it even more.
Your mind rationalises -
“She is probably so uptight.”
“I bet she has a good looking boyfriend.”
“I have never had a girl like that.”
“People will look at me.”
“What if she turns me down?”
“I’m not good looking enough for her.”
It’s over before it started.
She gets her drink and walks right by you. Frozen. Done. All
bets are closed.
How many times has this happened to YOU?
GUY 2:
So you’re out.
There she is. At the bar. The one you want.
We all have the image of the perfect girl - and this is her.
Your mind quiets down.
You smile to yourself as you have a thousand times before.
Finally a girl worthy of your approach.
You’re ON IT. Your mind is completely silent as you glide up,
SMOOTH as silk to meet her.
You literally feel this glow of power inside as you move with
finesse, the power and control you have is amazing. You’re the
jedi of a nightclub.
She FEELS your presence and turns.
That quiet cheeky smile is now on your face as you look her
right in the eye. Without saying a word she is looking you up
and down.
Everything now is slow motion. You have seen it all before -
the magic eight ball shakes - the game begins.
She snaps fully around as you deliver the opening line. She
can’t hear the music. She can’t see anything but you.
Shes being immersed in emotion. Sucked into your reality.
She does not have a choice.
She is totally in the moment.
She forgets her friends who are yelling at her - she cannot
hear or see them.
And now the magic eight ball… before you even consciously
think, the best thing to say floats to the surface of your
mind. It rolls off your lips as smooth as sunset. You feel
the power inside you grow more as your words hit.
She bursts. Behind her glazing eyes you see a struggle. Her
logical mind is getting drowned as she submits to the
emotions you have induced.
Was it what you actually said? Or how you said it? All you
know is now she is all over you - it hits her hard. You can
see the logic drifting away as she falls into her favorite
mental place - she is being seduced.
It’s your choice - Guy 1, or Guy 2.
Ask yourself always, “Am I Guy 1 or Guy 2? What would Smooth2
do?”
Now, to get there:
1. Cultivate that smooooooth character. You know what smooth
is! Start consciously doing it dammit!
2. Start looking at how your interactions FLOW… do they
seem effortless to a third party observer? Or are they jerky
and linear? Use your own magic eight ball.
3. Guy 2 - smoothness is something you ARE, not something you
DO.
4. Look at the smoothest real life characters you know - how
do they converse? How are they chatting to people? Make
yourself personable and unique. e.g. I excessively say the
word deluxe, I like the word so for this month everything has
been, “Oh I just went to nightclub x last night - was deluxe.”
Enough lessons for today. I hope this makes some sort of
sense.
Have fun with all the in field challenges.
I am!
- chariot deluxe
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Awesome. I love these Coach of the Month features, because
they really give me a chance to step back and let the other
guys shine, while learning something in the process.
When you take a RSD Bootcamp, you’ll spend three days with
top-calibre instructors like Chariot, who make it their TOP
PRIORITY to ensure you get the skills and knowledge that will
set you on the path to the kind of success that they now enjoy.
Don’t waste any more time screwing around; it’s your life
we’re talking about here. Sign up for your bootcamp today
and unleash the player within by following this link:
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Check this testimonial:
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“I feel completely rewired and inspired. I look forward to
keeping in touch with everyone and contributing. This is a
GREAT PROGRAM. It breathed new life into my game. Tim is
smoothly calibrated and very educational to watch.”
- B.B. from San Diego, CA, USA
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And don’t forget about our other products, such as the
Foundations Superconference.
This is nothing less than TWO FULL DAYS of classroom lecture
from Tyler himself… the notorious genius behind Real Social
Dynamics who started it all.
Tyler’s been developing this program for the past two years, and
it’s finally ready to see the light of day. Every shred of
his latest theories and intensely analytical observations in the
field will be disseminated and dissected right before your
eyes.
Essentially, this is like taking a seminar on psychology from
Freud, or a writing workshop taught by James Joyce. Pickup is his
area of expertise, and he’s not only at the top of his game, but
at the top of his field as well.
To learn more about the Foundations, visit our site:
http://www.realsocialdynamics.com/foundations.asp
All right, that’s all for today. Take care, and we’ll see you
next time.
Sincerely,
Jeffy, Executive Coach
REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS
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