Carlos Asks: Why do Nice Guys finish last?

I wanted to drop you a quick note.

Let’s leave women out of this discussion for a minute. Just for a little bit, anyway.

Have you ever wondered what it is that a successful guy has that the “average” guy doesn’t?

And I’m not talking about the obvious tangible things, like money, or a nice car, or a house. Those are not the cause, they’re the
EFFECT.

The personality traits that a dominant man displays are what give him the success he enjoys, both psychologically as well as
financially.

Re read that. It’s actually pretty important.

(And yes, those things - money, car, house - translate into success with women, but not in the way that you think. But wait, I said I was leaving women out of this for a minute…)

I personally started out very low in the pecking order. I was what you would have considered a “Nice Guy.” I was easygoing. I liked to keep things cool and mellow. You know, where you can keep everyone getting along with each other. I wasn’t very alpha.

Conflict just makes things more difficult, right? Then no one has any fun.

So I became the diplomat. The guy to keep things running smooth and cool.

The problem is, I started doing this in all areas of my life. I started avoiding and de-fusing conflict and confrontation wherever
it came into my world.

I did this in my career, my family, and most often in my dating life.

I didn’t realize that I was actually sabotaging myself by trying to AVOID conflict instead of MANAGING conflict.

If you’re a nice guy, or if you’ve been one for any period of time, or SUSPECT you might be, you might be nodding your head already at what I’m saying. But let me finish; there’s something else I think you’ll relate to…

(Now let’s bring women back into the picture. Forget for a minute that I’m going to show you a proven method to improve your life, your career, your friendships, your prosperity… )

I also discovered that I was a little bitter. I was angry at all the guys who seemed to be getting the women I thought *I* should be getting. I mean, I’m so much BETTER than these jerks. What do THEY have that I don’t have?

I got angrier and angrier about this because I thought I was being ignored, and these dweebs who didn’t have half the goods I did were getting the hot women.

Do you want to know why nice guys finish last?

Here’s why….

You ready for this?

I’m reminded of Jack Nicholson’s line: “You can’t handle the truth!”

But I know you can handle this.

Nice guys finish last because …

… we’re not really being “nice.”

It’s true. We’re not as nice as we might think when we sacrifice our own desires and needs to accommodate and supplicate to women. When we try to be “nice” we’re showing a woman that we don’t have natural qualities to attract them, and we’re denying our masculinity.

You see, by being nice, we’re actually doing the WRONG thing for women.

What Nice Guys have got to do is bring out this “nice” quality WITH our innate DOMINANCE.

Women need to see guys who are capable of being STRONG and protecting them, not giving up their Alpha Male Power to women. They have to learn how to mix in the assertive behaviors that will show women that we are fit to be their mates. And this means short term as well as long term.

Women want STRONG Alpha Men. Guys who can lead them and protect them.

Don’t make the mistake of believing that women want jerks. They only desire certain Alpha qualities the jerk possesses and that the Nice Guy is afraid to show.

These Alpha qualities act like a potent drug on her nervous system, blinding her (temporarily) to the reality of the Jerk’s bad
influence. Eventually she finds herself emotionally locked to someone she doesn’t like, but can’t seem to get away from.

Ask a drug addict sometime if they like the drug that addicts them. They’ll tell you NO, but they can’t stop going back to it.

Now, there are a lot of dating guides out there. Dating tips and secrets on how to entrance and captivate women are important, but what about improving yourself WHILE you’re looking to get women?

Become a better man physically … mentally … spiritually … financially … romantically …

What about becoming a guy who knows ALL the rules of the dating game? And the game of LIFE?

Let me throw you a quick pop quiz. No need to get a pen and paper, just nod or shake your head…

- Do you ever find yourself feeling nervous and uncertain when you’re around women? And you don’t want to use stupid pickup lines that don’t work?

- Do you ever find yourself afraid to approach a woman because you don’t know how to handle the situation? (Or because you’re afraid of her rejection?)

- Do you feel like you don’t have the assets a woman wants in a man, like fame, wealth, a nice car, good looks? Do you ever feel
like you need to BUY a woman’s affections?

- Do you want to build your status and grow to become more of your potential?

- Have you just started to date after divorce or a bad breakup? Do you find yourself reluctant to go out and meet women, that it’s just too painful to go through the hassle of dating?

- Do you want to find out more about the unwritten Laws of Success so you can apply them to your own life?

- Do you feel like you’re playing a “dating game” when you try to meet women to date or just have fun with? And do you feel like
women have all the power and make all the rules?

- Are you looking to make an investment in YOURSELF for once, instead of just throwing your money away on bad dates, bad
investments, and bad decisions?

- Do you ever wish you could meet beautiful women and feel confident that you’d succeed with them?

- Do you feel ashamed of your ability to approach women, and that you don’t know where to go to get dating tips and help
understanding seduction?

First of all, these feelings are totally NORMAL. Every guy has had them at one point or another.

But what will set you apart is what you DO about it. What are you willing to do to improve your dating and seduction skills to get
more women into your life?

You see, most guys will never learn how to handle the situations I asked you about in those questions, and then they will never get the dating success they desire. They will let their egos get in their way, refusing to admit that they don’t know it all.

They may NEVER get to be an Alpha Male.

I know that you’re the kind of guy who wants to do better, or else you wouldn’t be a subscriber to the newsletters or read our blog. You want to know how to improve, and you’re willing to put aside your ego to accomplish it.

I salute you for your humility and ambition for excellence.

So, let me cut to the chase.

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Talk to you again soon,

Carlos

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Carlos Xuma
Dating Advice for Men