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QUALITY Women… with the REAL You.
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Hey, it’s Carlos.
I had a quick question for you…
Have you ever had someone tell you to just “BE” a certain way?
Maybe they said to just “be” happy. Or maybe they told you to not
“BE” so serious.
I always found that kind of advice annoying because I was already
stuck in that state. Don’t they think I would BE another way if I
could?
It’s like telling me to NOT be such a thinker. I’m hard wired that way.
But when it comes to being “hungry” or desperate with women, you
have to understand that you’re not hard-wired with this.
It’s not your identity.
And you do have a path to NOT being this way if you want to change it.
To go straight to my information on this subject, just
http://www.thealpharules.com/alpha-male-lifestyle/pickup-alpha-male-attraction-16.htm
Read on for more on the “desperate” mindset…
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QUESTION:
I totally believe in the concepts and basic principles you have
put forth but it boils down to this: Yes, things come to the people
who don’t expect them or need them but in order to give of that
vibe you truly must be in that “zone” truthfully.
I have not dated or gotten laid in the past seven years, I am being
mindful when I approach women and get numbers to be cool laid back
relaxed, in control like any alpha man would. But…. the problem
is as we all know women have built in radars that can detect things
in men.
For example: Guys who are in relationships get hit on by women more
than guys who are single for some reason.
So how can I be in the zone of not being hungry when I truly am
starving? My approach doesn’t come as needy but there must be a “X”
factor or something that maybe women are sensing?
Because I call them once and never hear from them again, not even a
first date at all but, at the time them are giving me the initial
indicators of interest and attraction.
How do you control your hunger when in reality who haven’t had a
girlfriend or gotten laid in over seven years - or ever?
Yes, neediness drives women away, but how do you mask it or control
it and appear not hungry when in reality you are truly truly
famished?
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CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS:
This is a great question, because it speaks to the heart of what I
teach.
First of all, remember that the problem isn’t that you haven’t
gotten laid in seven years. That’s a SYMPTOM, not the actual
disease. Mistaking it for the real problem is what distracts most
guys.
The secret to getting rid of this hunger is really to…
Read the rest of my article on how to stop looking like the
desperate guy, go here:
http://www.thealpharules.com/alpha-male-lifestyle/pickup-alpha-male-attraction-16.htm
Your friend,
Carlos Xuma
PS: Really, this is an important article, and it’s one of the most
important issues you need to understand about your own masculine
power.
Read it here: http://www.thealpharules.com/alpha-male-lifestyle/pickup-alpha-male-attraction-16.htm
Really. Go now before someone bothers you with a meaningless task
and distracts you…
Carlos Xuma
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