Are you limiting your beliefs?

QUESTION:

Carlos,

Just some feedback from the Midwest (Michigan).

Regarding:

“You’re pretty cute. It’s a shame we’re in a public place or I’d
bite your ear. Maybe nibble on your earlobe. Kiss you along your
neck. Then I’d probably go nuts and ravage you right there. Like I
said, lucky we’re in a public place.”

I think if I tried something like this with a woman here, she would
get scared, turn around and walk away. Is my response just
“regional”, that is, midwestern?

-A

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CARLOS:

This is from another email of mine where I talk about how to create
attraction tension between you and another woman.

You think that it would not work.

I think you’re a victim of self-limiting beliefs. I lived in the
midwest and it worked… Because I BELIEVED it.

Keep in mind that it is not the first thing you say to a woman, and
it definitely should not be thrown into conversation without first
generating some attraction. This is something to spice things up a
bit later on.

But it WILL work if it’s done with conviction.

99% of all regional concerns I hear from guys are rationalizations
that have no basis in fact. It’s always “different” where YOU live.

The fact is that you can easily adapt this to your region. (and
customization is not only recommended, it’s absolutely necessary.)

Have you tried it?

Don’t do it half-assed, where you come across with a fearful vibe
of a guy who is afraid of his own sxuality, either. That comes
across as plain pitiful.

The world is full of “I don’t think that would work…”

Prove me wrong, then we’ll talk.

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QUESTION:

I have been receiving Alpha emails for a short amount of time and
the information sounds interesting. I need some advice or
publication that would help me out with my particular situation. I
have been dating this woman for 2 months and the 1st month went
very well, had sex, she was calling me “sweetie” “honey” etc..

Then she let me know 4 weeks after we had been dating that her
ex-boyfriend of 3 years had called her to go to dinner (he broke up
with her), I said “no problem if you need time to figure things
take some time and call me in August”. She said that was not
necessary, she still wanted to see me.

Shortly after this we were out at the bar with some friends playing
pool with some strangers and she kissed some random guy, so I went
up, told the guy to back off and almost started a fight. She told
me to be mad at her and not the guy as it meant nothing to her, she
was just flirting. I told her this is not acceptable behavior
around me and she agreed it would not happen again. Should I dump
her, or just pull back and call her in 3 weeks?

Thanks, DP
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CARLOS:

I read this and immediately had a vision of this woman, having
dealt with many like her before. She’s giving off red flags, but
you’re ignoring them for cheap superficial signals like affection
and sex. Sorry to tell you, man … these things are STANDARD
EQUIPMENT with any woman. Your expectations are coming from a
scarcity point of view.

Rarely do I feel that my advice needs to be so short and sweet, but
if I were to sum it up in less than 10 words ….

Dump her. She’s a tramp.

She’s playing you and your emotions like a grand piano.

Any Alpha Man would have calmly broken it off with her the second
she brought up an “ex” boyfriend. Chances are, she’s his booty
call, and you’ll be the chump that nicely gives her some “space”
while she goes off to have screaming, deep inner orgasms with him.

Sound a bit extreme?

Nope. Not a bit.

There’s a difference between giving a woman space in a wimpy way
and knowing when you’re going down the old heartache trail. When a
woman feels compelled to let you in on this information, it’s a
test or it’s her way of letting you know that she’s got unresolved
feelings for him.

Oh, and for the record, she was actually right about something. You
should have been mad at her instead of that guy. It was HER choice
to jeopardize what she had with you. What you should have done was
say, “Hey, man, you want her? She’s cheap.” Take a quarter from the
change on the bar. “Okay, she’s yours.”

Letting him have her is even better than fighting him. Give the
gift that keeps on giving, I say.

“Meant nothing,” huh? If that was true, she wouldn’t have kissed
him. And if it was true, she lacks self-control. She’ll be doing it
again next week. Just try and get a restful night’s sleep the next
time she goes out “with the girls.”

The next time this happens to you (I fear the lesson may not be
learned as deeply as possible yet), I want you to do this at the
first sign of poor behavior or potential red flags:

Do not give her another chance!

You’ve already let her get away with two episodes of severe dating
misconduct. You’re demonstrating that you’ll take anything she does
as long as there’s a chance you’ll get some at a later date.

It’s not about if you should dump her or wait 3 weeks. This is
showing that you actually value her enough to want some kind of
manipulative result. When a woman violates your standards of
behavior in any way, she is GONE.

At least she is in my world.

I don’t mind telling you about these strategies because I want you
to understand what women are REALLY attracted to. It’s not fake,
pushy tactics or hypnosis. Women are attracted to authenticity and
strength of character.

And that’s what REAL men have.

And if you’d like to learn more about REAL Game and the successful
attitudes of an Alpha Man, you should take a look at the program
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Just remember: Every man is self-made, but only the SUCCESSFUL
admit it.

I’ll be back with more advice soon …

- Carlos Xuma