Man, I feel like a total slob today. I’ve been doing a lot
of work on the book this week, and as such I’m in full-on
“writer mode.” Meaning I haven’t shaved or taken a shower
in several days. Hell, I haven’t even left the house.
There’s no need for hygeine when I’m in writer mode. Because
all I’m [...]

I just got back from a week-long retreat with about 120 of
my friends and their friends and their friends.
There were a lot of people I knew there, and some who I didn’t,
and of course everyone was mingling about.
Now, whenever I go on something like this, word invariably
gets around about what I do for a [...]

As you may or may not know, I am absolutely in awe of a certain
dude who I work with. His name is Tyler. I tell everyone I
know, “This guy is a fricking GENIUS, yo.”
I *never* say that about ANYONE. But this guy is the real
mofckin deal, player.
Tyler is the Co-Founder of Real Social Dynamics, [...]

It is time once again for The Autopsy of the Month.
Yes, this is where we examine a pickup from start to finish.
Sometimes, we’ll highlight a success so you can get an idea
of what a properly executed pick up looks like, sometimes
we take a “failure” and learn what we can to avoid the pitfalls
in the future.
Today, [...]

My cat is fat.
And I don’t care.
When I got back from my extended trip to Europe, I noticed
the cat had put on some extra weight. People were telling me,
“Dude yo your cat is pretty chubby man!”
I would just reply, “No. She is big-fluffed.”
So she’s chubby. Who cares.
I brought a girl home last night and, [...]

So I just woke up and decided to slam out a magical newsletter
of destiny for you, BEFORE I EVEN GET OUT OF BED.
I’m doing this a lot lately. I seem to think more clearly first
thing in the morning.
The thing is, it is a race against time.
This morning, the street cleaner is coming by. If [...]

You know, there’s an old saying:
“Change is inevitable… except from a vending machine.”
I bring this up because today I’m in a reflective mood. I’m
thinking about how drastically I’ve changed over the course
of not only my life, but the last five years, and even the
last six months.
One thing that strikes me is the fact that while [...]

Today’s newsletter is our special “Featured Coach of the Month”
edition. This time, RSD Executive Coach Geoff steps up to the
plate to give some straight-shooting advice on balance, ego,
insecurity and a host of other topics.
A quick rundown on Geoff, for those of you who don’t know him:
After attending West Point for undergraduate university, Geoff
went to work [...]

I just finished reading an excellent book which my friend
recommended to me. It’s an old best seller, and you may
be familiar with it… “Zen and the Art of Motorcycle
Maintenance: An Inquiry Into Values.”
I was expecting it to be a light and comedic read, by the
seemingly humorous title. Instead, it was an extremely dense
exploration into philosophy [...]

Today I wanna open up the newsletter with some insights I’ve
been having lately with regard to the quality of women I’ve
been dating.
See, it wasn’t that long ago that it seemed like every girl I
went out with was some sort of psychopath.
This one’s an alcoholic. This one’s on drugs. This one’s a
self-mutilator. This one has [...]