How to Seduce a Girl

These tips tell you how to seduce a girl. These are not a complete manual but are proven principles. A lot more can be said about the process of seduction but after reading and applying these tips you’ll be ahead of 95% of all other males.

1. Go out

Biggest sticking point of many men. They read, mentally rehearse and then fail. They simply don’t go out. This is probably the simplest rule to get right (open the door and walk through it) and yet the biggest problem for many (unless you want to seduce the babysitter ;-).

2. Approach

From all the men who do go out, a lot of them don’t try to pick up a girl. In the worst case they are afraid of approaching and just stand looking at the girls passing by trying to talk themselves into walking to that girl. That’s the wall-flower-syndrome.

3. Just try

In the best case, which, to be honest, is already much better, they simply go to the girl and ask someting simple (”How late is this bus coming?”) and leave it at that. That’s not enough to seduce her. I’m not saying it can’t be a big victory for you if you started from being afraid to go out. If that’s you, you’re doing great. But don’t leave it at that. Your goal here is to get to the point where you try something that will bring you closer to your goal of getting the girl.

4. Experiment

You walked up to a girl, you’re willing to try something. Great. Now experiment. There is so much you can try and it is great fun to see what results all these different things can bring for you. If one thing doesn’t work for you choose something different. But give it a fair number of attempts (maybe your way of delivering was not that great while the material would have worked). Some people like having the idea that the world is their pickup-lab in which they run experiments.

5. Fail

And do it often. Failure is the only way to improvement. There’s no way round it and it isn’t as bad as it sounds. Actually it’s fun because you are trying out new things and experimenting. I know many guys are afraid of failure. If they just would adapt the view that by failing they come closer to their goal of finding the methods that work for them they’d instantly become approach machines. If you want to know how to seduce someone (yes, there, also if you want to know how to seduce your aunt) you need to tailor the approach to what works for you.

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